Thursday, February 21, 2008

A Simple Reminder

What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs most is respect. The most important thing for a girl is her heart. For a guy its his ego.

Give your man his own time and space. Let him have his time for his friends, sports, family, self, and God. The relationship will grow old quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss you and you'll see how he will love you more. If the guy naman is obsessed and just wants to be with you all the time, tell him you can't respect a "puppy" for long.

Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagal na kayo, there is always something fresh and new. Variety is the spice of life. Exciting baga?

Discover something you both like to do and enjoy it TWOgether. Doon naman sa mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig nyo, compliment each other by learning about it kahit konti. If you love someone, yung effort nyo to try will go a looooong way to understand him later pag may disagreement kayo.

Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh? Maybe, but its very powerful. Pag may takot sa Diyos ang partner mo, kampante ka na di ka nya lolokohin, because He knows God sees everything he does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa that before you part after date, with hands held and eyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe me it's effective. Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.

Believe in "Magic". Kahit minsan di practical o walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories will be fun to recall later in life. The corniest song o gift o letter ang laging kabog.

True love brings out the best in each other. Find something good in your Partner and nurture it, encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.

It's healthy to fight. Doon nyo lang maaayos ang mga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng relationship. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng mabuti. Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how dalas you fight. What matters is how often you make bati. Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect at laging masaya. One big fight and that's it! And diba mas kilig yung malambing na... "uy, bati na tayo...". But don't overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagi na lang manuyo o magsori. Choose the battles na papatulan mo.

Daraan sa iba't-ibang stages ang love especially pag matagal na kayo. Grow with it. Don't expect him to be like nung una. 'Coz like a student, di na ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang-grade 2. Change WILL happen... you both will change and your love WILL change too. It's up to you na lang if the change will be for the better or for the worse. Life is about growth. Grow with it.

When break up comes and it's time to say goodbye, don't doubt the love just because it didn't last. May mga bagay sa buhay na di man nagtatagal, it doesn't mean di na ito totoo. Some good things are just never meant to last forever. Okay lang yon. Bless the parting and move on.

Expect tears, sorrow, sleepless nights and pain. Ika nga "it's when you hurt the worse that you love the MOST." Kung di ka willing masaktan, wag ka na lang magmahal.

Life is a balance. And love is both holding on and letting go. Know when to fight for your man or woman and when to let him go. God will guide you kung anong dapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapat mataas ang signal ng langit sa cellfone ng puso mo to know His wisdom.

Saturday, February 9, 2008

Requirements for Marriage License

Here are the requirements for Marriage License (Manila):

Applicants 18-21 yrs. old

1.1 Birth Certificate latest copy
Born in Manila - Local Copy
Born outside Manila - NSO copy

1.2 Valid ID - Original and Xerox

1.3 Parental Consent - Parent to come with valid ID

1.4 Marriage Counselling - -Manila Health Department -DSWD


Applicants for 21-25 years old

1.1 Birth Certificate latest copy
Born in Manila - Local Copy
Born outside Manila - NSO copy
*Baptismal Certificate if no Birth Certificate

1.2 Valid ID - Original and Xerox
*At least 1 of the party must be a Resident of Manila City.
ID must show address

1.3 Marriage Counselling - -Manila Health Department

1.4 CENOMAR (we did not submit this, pero its better to get 1, just to be sure)

Fee 120.00

Steps to follow

1. Submit requirements to Ms. Estela Bombita at counter 1 for theorder of payment
2. Seminar-for applicants 18-24 years old, proceed to rm. 128 (manila healthdept). Then rm 108 (DSWD)
- for applicants 25 years old, proceed to rm. 128 (manila health dept)


1st session 8:00 to 9:00 - Registration (Seminar/Any day)
9:00 to 10:00 - Seminar

2nd session 1:00 to 1:30 - Registration
1:30 to 2:30 - Seminar

3. After seminar submit requirements to Ms. Estela Bombita for OathTaking

4. Release of Marriage License after 10 days.
->the Marriage License kasi will be posted in the City Hall for 10 days.
->Marriage License will be valid for 120 days. Releasing date will be the start of the counting.
->Both has to be present because of the seminar and Oathtaking.